There’s a two-part answer to this question.
1) I come from a small, very judgy, Bible-belt town in south Georgia. There is only one commandment in this small town:
“Thou shalt not do anything wrong ever, lest ye be shamed and the whole town informed of your indiscretion.”
Pretty sure that’s written in the community guidelines or on the welcome sign or something.
Anywho, that trains you to believe that anything other than perfection is unacceptable and that the opinions of others are the ONLY thing that matters in life...so yeah, you could definitely say I was well prepared to take risks and be bold and start an online business - NOT.
It’s taken a LOOOTTT of mindset work to break free of my “rule-following” ways, and I know there are a lot of other perfectionists, people-pleasers, and “good girls” out there who need help being bold and showing up confidently online.
2) Growing up as an introvert, I was DEFINITELY a quiet kid. Still am.
But people assumed that since I was quiet that I was also sweet, innocent, shy, meek, timid, vanilla. I was "quiet, sweet Amelia".
I like being what people don't expect.
"Quiet, sweet Amelia" had the audacity to start her own business.
"Quiet, sweet Amelia" went great-white-shark-cage-diving in South Africa.
"Quiet, sweet Amelia" flew all over the U.S. alone, decided to start a travel blog and grew my following to 4K in a year, danced in front of thousands on a football field in the band in college, gave a speech in front of thousands as Salutatorian at my high school graduation, poses for brand photos in the streets of Atlanta while onlookers watch.
Everyone who knows (or knew) me is "shocked" that I would (or could) do any of those things.
So have the audacity to be bold and unexpected. Don't let stereotypes, narratives you've been told about who you are, and other people's opinions of you hold you back.
Because EVEN THE QUIET CAN BE BOLD.